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  • Don’t Say This When Your Spouse is Thinking About Divorce.
    Marriage & Marriage Crisis

    Don’t Say This When Your Spouse is Thinking About Divorce.

    There are things one should never tell their miserably unhappy spouse. For example, if you want to infuriate a person, one of the best ways is to tell them that their concerns or emotions aren’t justified. I have breaking news for the world: feelings are organic and can’t be ordered on Amazon or concocted on demand. I can’t decide to be angry; it just happens. Feelings are how our soul speaks to us. Whatever feeling we have is actually a tap on our shoulder by our soul telling us, “Look at this and see what’s going on.”

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  • If You’re Thinking of Leaving Your Spouse, Read This ….
    Marriage & Marriage Crisis

    If You’re Thinking of Leaving Your Spouse, Read This ….

    Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. You’ve been unhappy in your relationship for a long time. You can taste the idea of freedom, focusing on…

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  • Being relational: Few do it – everyone needs to know how.
    Marriage & Marriage Crisis

    Being relational: Few do it – everyone needs to know how.

    Mike refused to speak to his wife Laura for weeks at a time, and by the time she dragged him to my…

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  • Divorce prevention alert: Know now what you’re going to wish you knew later.
    Marriage & Marriage Crisis

    Divorce prevention alert: Know now what you’re going to wish you knew later.

    When a spouse pleads with their mate to go to marriage counseling, you can bet they’re frustrated – trust me, people don’t…

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  • Has your wife has checked out of your marriage?
    Marriage & Marriage Crisis

    Has your wife has checked out of your marriage?

    Roger is 45 and called to make an appointment. “My wife has changed overnight,” he says. “And she won’t come in to…

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  • Doing couples therapy with a narcissist.
    Marriage & Marriage Crisis

    Doing couples therapy with a narcissist.

    Just coming back from Los Angeles and Terry Real’s Relational Life Therapy training, I am mulling over what I learned. One of…

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  • Prevent Future Divorce by Learning What Predicts It
    Marriage & Marriage Crisis

    Prevent Future Divorce by Learning What Predicts It

    Note: This blog post is dedicated to those who are currently married or going through marriage crisis and trying to figure out…

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  • Is your marriage dying? Know in 3 minutes using this diagnostic tool.
    Marriage & Marriage Crisis

    Is your marriage dying? Know in 3 minutes using this diagnostic tool.

    One of my friends once said that every divorced person she knew could identify a moment in time when they knew their…

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  • Home
    • Take the Quiz – Marriages Die in Stages.
  • About Doctor Becky
  • Marriage & Marriage Crisis
    • 90-Minute Marriage Crisis Consultation
    • Before You Decide on Separation or Divorce
    • Managed Separation
    • Separation, Divorce, Co-parenting Documents
    • Decider Support.
    • Information for the Decider – If You are Leaning Out of your Marriage
    • Leaning in Partners Want To Keep Their Marriages Alive and Thriving.
    • If Your Spouse Wants to Leave You
    • What About The Kids?
  • Learn
    • Relationship University
    • Media
    • Becky’s Book: I (think) I want Out
    • Books
    • The Stages of Marital Crisis
    • Videos
  • For therapists
    • MCM Practitioner Certification
  • Blog
  • Contact
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  • Book a consultation
    • Services we offer.
    • Book an Appointment
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