A private All-Virtual learning Institute with live monthly masterclasses, relationship case studies, practical worksheets, Extracurricular activities, and direct access to Dr. Becky for questions.
You need to learn about relationship dynamics.
This is the place where people wanting to have better relationships at home, work, and everywhere else can learn how. We will gather twice a month and learn what no one taught us at home or school about being a healthy adult and how to be healthy in relationships, and should have. It is a must-learn for every adult.
Two LIVE masterclasses every month.
Watch the classes live, or the recording of the class if you can’t make it live. Included handouts, homework, reading list, and every video will be stored in a library you can view at any time. Enjoy an online forum where we can continue our converstions about healthy relationships.
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First 39 members get lifetime membership for $39/month.
(Reg tuition $55/month.)
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Join our members-only class, attend in person, or watch a recording later.
We’ve always needed a place to go where we can learn about how to be healthy as adults, and how to be healthy in relationships. But where do you go?
No one wants to go to a boring and dull class like we all know so well. Our culture falls short in preparing us to be in relationships in a healthy way, and the solution is education.
Dr. Becky Whetstone recognizes the need for quality information presented in an informative and entertaining way. She is one of the only primarily right-brained therapists you’ll find – she is creative, loves to teach, and has a burning desire and enthusiasm to pass on everything she has learned over the last 40 years of studying relationships to the general public.
To help this along, she writes a blog, makes videos, and now, is embarking on live classes for adults where we can tackle a different topic in each class, and you can ask questions. We will provide you with a Relationship University Syllabus and schedule so you can see what classes are coming up.
Becky’s is an eclectic therapist, and continues this tradition into her life coaching. Her teachings are influenced by her education and training as a marriage and family therapist, her days teaching basic psychology to college students, Carl Jung, Sigmund Freud, Transactional Analysis, her fascination with the powerful energy healing methods such as Gestalt therapy, hypnosis, meditation, somatic experiencing, energy healing, the law of attraction, and finally, the trauma model created by Pia Mellody, author of Facing Codependence that explains all the whys of how we become traumatized, and how it causes us to be immature in our intimate relationships. We will be working on going into recovery from this. And we will study the work of Terry Real, author of my favorite audiobook for couples, Fierce Intimacy, who teaches us how to be relational in a healthy way. Real was mentored by Pia Mellody, as was Becky.
Cost of the monthly membership tuition is $55, but we are offering a one-time Founding Members of Dr. Becky Whetstone’s Relationship University $39 a month for life for the first 39 people that sign up.
Who, What, When, Where …
Who: Dr. Becky Whetstone, marriage and family therapist and life coach.
What: Relationship University. Twice a month meeetings where we talk about every aspect of having healthy relationships, and students learn the things no one ever taught them, but should have.
When: Tuesdays at 12 noon central beginning September 22 for one hour. Meetings are recorded and will be maintained in a library for members to view at any time.
Where: Zoom. Your link will be unique for evey meeting, and we will send it to you prior to the meeting.
Class Schedule/Syllabus
Here are the classes planned for the rest of 2026.
September 22. Inaugural meeting. Topic: What is it to be a mentally and emotional healthy adult who is wired for healthy relationships? What do healthy relationships with self and others look like? What are the characteristics of these solid relationships?
September 29. (Note: Although meeetings are usually every other week, this time we are doing it (the first October class) one week apart due to a conflict in Becky’s schedule.) Topic: Everyone has childhood trauma that makes it difficult to have healthy relationships. So how did that happen? You’ll be shocked at how little it takes to traumatize a child, and an adult. We will define what a trauma is, and how we know it is childhood related.
October 20. Topic: What does one need to do to go into recovery from childhood trauma? (P.S. Don’t tell yourself you don’t have it, because you do!)
November 3. Topic: Understanding the five core areas where we become emotionally disabled, which almost always show up in our interpersonal relationships. Self-esteem, boundaries, Perception/reality, Dependency, Moderation/control.
November 17. Topic: The parts of the traumatized person’s personality that wreak havoc in their lives.
December 1. Topic: The different roles that emerge in families, and how they affect us our entire lives.
December 15. Special topic just in time for the holidays. How to navigate the holidays with friends and family without going insane. Holiday Boundary Setting 101.
December 29. Topic: Why many of us fail to keep New Year’s Resolution promises and the importance of self discipline and setting goals for yourself.
Stay tuned for the 2027 Syllabus!
A few topics we will be exploring …
What is it to be a mentally and emotional healthy adult who is wired for healthy relationships.
It is essential to know the diffference between healthy and not healthy. Functional, and dysfunctional, when it comes to relating with yourself and others. We’ll talk about this first, so you will have your north star in your journey to being all you can be,
Everyone has childhood trauma that makes it difficult to have healthy relationships. So how did that happen?
We all get traumatized as children, and we will teach you how you can absolutely, positively know you have it, and how it happened. We will talk about beginning the recovery process. This sets you on your way to being the healthiest and most functional person you know!
What does one need to do to go into recovery from childhood trauma?
Diving a liuttle deeper into the recovery process from childhood developmental trauma. The facets of it, and things you can do now that will change your life.
The parts of the traumatized person’s Personality.
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The different roles that emerge in families, and how they effect us our entire lives.
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Special topic just in time for the holidays. How to navigate the holidays with friends and family without going insane. Holiday Boundary Setting 101.
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