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Managed Separation: Why Most Trial Separations End in Divorce.

conditioned them to. It’s just what you do. Well, not anymore.
Today I am crying, screaming, and yelling from the rooftops – tell yourself and all of your friends, if you have a marriage crisis, there is excellent, high-quality, research-based information curated by a person with a doctorate in marriage and family therapy. It’s uncomfortable to toot my own academic horn, but I am doing it here to underline that this is no fly-by night or quick-fix sham designed for you to pay a fee and get suckered, it is legitimate, solid, best practices information for couples in crisis.

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5 Invisible Signs a Marriage Is Dying (Most Couples Miss Them).

Most marriages don’t collapse overnight. Marriage therapist and crisis specialist Becky Whetstone explains the subtle signs a marriage is dying long before divorce is ever mentioned.

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Four Types of Cheaters, All Lie, Here’s What to Do.

No Matter How Bad Your Spouse Is, There’s No Excuse. If I could take one painful marital scenario away from the planet,…

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How Accepting Your Spouse’s Divorce Decision Can Save Your Marriage.

Those who are strong in crisis win in the end. Are you healthy enough to be strong and resilient when life gives you a hard time or when terrible things happen and you get knocked on your ass? Can you return to calmness after the initial shock, console yourself in despair during personal attacks or emotional injury, and control what you say and do?

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Caught: Don’t Lie to Me About Cheating and Affairs.

Lying about an affair is normal, but in my office, I don’t want to hear false descriptions or details. I already know…

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When One Spouse Wants Out, You May Need Managed Separation.

Even though a man is standing in this photo, 75 percent of the time, it is the female who initiates a marriage…

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Understanding the Six Adjustment Pathways After Divorce.

The least functional path after divorce is “The Defeated.” I hope that most people won’t allow themselves to go there. A lot…

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Setting Boundaries is the Ultimate Healthy Self Care.

I used to fear setting boundaries, but now I love it. Once I clearly understood when someone was out of line, I…

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Waiting to Divorce Until Your Kids Are Grown is Misguided.

Yes, sometimes divorce is for the best. But if you have doubts, give your spouse a chance to make it right. For…

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When Your Spouse Wants to Leave and Refuses Therapy.

Chasing after and pursuing a partner on the brink of leaving you worsens things. Learn about what does help during this dicey…

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