Emotional Vampires: The People Who Drain You Dry (and What to Do About Them).
Why some people are never satisfied, endlessly needy, and emotionally exhausting — and whether they can change.
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Staying Unhappy or Divorce Aren’t the Only Options.
Getting Divorced is Irreversible, Make Sure You Want It. There isn’t only one right choice. There can be many. Shutterstock:Orla When people think of
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How to Get Rid of Resentment and Never Feel It Again.
How Resentment is a Me Problem, and Not a We Problem. Having resentment is a sign that you have a problem, not the other person. Even when people are
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Start Setting Boundaries With Others or Be Miserable.
Boundaries Make Us Happy, and Other People Miserable. This woman is learning to set boundaries. She’ll get pushback, but you have to accept that part of
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The Hidden Reason Couples Can’t Communicate: Their Nervous Systems.
Most couples think they have a communication problem. In reality, their nervous systems are reacting to old emotional wounds.
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Is My Marriage Over? Or Are We Going Through A Very Bad Time?
Introducing the advice column, Ask Becky Landers. Becky Landers, advice columnist. I always wanted to be an advice columnist, and my early life goal was
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What Everyone Needs to Know About Successful Marriage Therapy
And why some people will never be helped by any therapist. What makes marriage therapy successful? Does it solely depend on the…
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Spurs v. Knicks: Sore Winners, Sore Losers, and Why People Finger-Point
What a brutal NBA Finals loss is teaching me about how people handle defeat — on the court, and in a marriage….
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Gamma Brain: Why Your Partner Snaps When You Interrupt Them
No, (in this instance), your partner is probably not an impatient asshole. I consider myself a hard-working woman, and I do it…
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Your Spouse May Be Planning to Divorce You — And You Don’t Know It
Right now, your spouse could be sitting next to you on the couch, planning to divorce you. She may be planning to do it in the fall, after the holidays, or in a couple of years. I know this because I have spoken with hundreds and hundreds of people in that mindset, and I have been in that mindset myself.
