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  • How to Complain to Your Partner Without Damaging Your Relationship.
    boundaries | communication | marriage | relationships | self advocacy | Self care

    How to Complain to Your Partner Without Damaging Your Relationship.

    People love to bitch, gripe, and complain, and most never learn how to do it in a way that can actually be heard. When I say heard, I mean delivered in a way that a partner can calmly and respectfully receive and respond to what is being said. It’s all in the timing, tone, and delivery of the message as to whether your words will be taken seriously and get the response you desire.

    Surely all of us have experienced delivering a complaint in a way that got either zero response, an eyeroll, a laugh, repudiation, or a defensive diatribe that told us that getting anywhere with the person was not possible, at least in this moment. When people tell me they can’t communicate, this is what is happening, pure and simple.

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  • Is the Landmark Forum a Cult or one of the Greatest Personal Growth Seminars on the Planet?
    Career issues | Career relationships | childhood trauma | codependence | Counseling & Resources | Growing, healing, trusting | Mental Health | relationships | self advocacy | Self care | Uncategorized

    Is the Landmark Forum a Cult or one of the Greatest Personal Growth Seminars on the Planet?

    It is with some trepidation that I reveal the third most significant influence in helping me grow and evolve: The Landmark Forum, a three-day intensive seminar dedicated to personal growth that was developed in the 1990s. I hesitate, because it catapulted me to a different level in terms of courage, self-confidence, and finding my purpose, but it has a negative aspect to it as well – high-pressure sales tactics that give it a well-deserved sleazy reputation, and that leads critics to wonder if it is a cult.

    It is not a cult, and I highly recommend it for those who are curious, resilient, self-reflective, and ready for bold changes. I tell everyone I talk to about it that you must approach it with the attitude of accepting the gift it offers, while not succumbing to the pressure and sometimes unreasonable requests it makes of participants. I’ll explain more a little later.

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  • Don’t Date Your Ex’s New Spouse’s Ex and Other Good Ideas.
    Affairs | Dating, Remarriage, Blended Families | Divorce and post-divorce | Family issues | Marriage & Marriage Crisis | Relationship management | relationships | Self care | Separation

    Don’t Date Your Ex’s New Spouse’s Ex and Other Good Ideas.

    Some things in life are unspoken rules. I don’t know if people tell us not to do these things or if our common sense does. One of the rules is not to date your best friend’s ex unless you have spoken with them about it and gotten their blessing, or any close friend, for that matter. Others are don’t cut in line, don’t stand too close, don’t talk about your bodily functions, don’t talk about your life miseries and ailments on a first date, let people exit before you enter, don’t touch other people’s things, leave things as you found them, and on and on. We do these things because we are 8 billion people on one planet, and we have to all get along. Considering other people’s feelings and sensibilities before acting is a good and excellent thing and the best way for you to get along in this world, too.

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  • Too Many People Know Nothing About Healthy Relationships.
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    Too Many People Know Nothing About Healthy Relationships.

    Self-esteem is step one for building strong relationships. You can be the most intelligent, successful, or prosperous person in the room, and…

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  • Talking and Listening Boundaries, the Key to Healthy Communication.
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    Talking and Listening Boundaries, the Key to Healthy Communication.

    To be heard, learn effective talking and listening skills. by Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. Sandra said that she took her husband’s lack of…

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