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If You’re Thinking of Leaving Your Spouse, Read This ….
By Doctor Becky • July 11, 2023Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. You’ve been unhappy in your relationship for a long time. You can taste the idea of freedom, focusing on… -
How Not to Screw Up Yourself, Others, and Your Children.
By Doctor Becky • April 10, 2025How Expectations & Lack of Boundaries Screw up Relationships.“You cannot have expectations of others without their agreement.” — A Marriage and Family Therapist,… -
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Don’t Date Your Ex’s New Spouse’s Ex and Other Good Ideas.
By Doctor Becky • January 20, 2025Some things in life are unspoken rules. I don’t know if people tell us not to do these things or if our common sense does. -
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The Divorce Stories We Tell Are Based in Fiction.
By Doctor Becky • January 12, 2025People will tell their stories however they will; we can do nothing about it. There is no need to defend, beg them not to, or -
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Why the Wimpy Guy is a Frequent Cause for Divorce.
By Doctor Becky • January 7, 2025If a wife has to be dominant in the relationship with a man, there will be sexual chemistry issues. If a passive man hands the -
Why You Don’t Like Your Therapist: No one is the same.
By Doctor Becky • January 5, 2025herapists and counselors have a variety of styles and training, and how we are trained influences us and how we do our jobs. A psychologist, -
Four Types of Cheaters, All Lie, Here’s What to Do.
By Doctor Becky • January 5, 2025No Matter How Bad Your Spouse Is, There’s No Excuse.If I could take one painful marital scenario away from the planet, it… -
Why Controlling People Don’t Know They’re Controlling.
By Doctor Becky • December 27, 2024Expectations of one adult to another are an enormous waste of time, as is wishing the person was different than what they are, but controlling -
How Accepting Your Spouse’s Divorce Decision Can Save Your Marriage.
By Doctor Becky • December 14, 2024Those who are strong in crisis win in the end. Are you healthy enough to be strong and resilient when life gives you a hard -
People Will Self-Sabotage Despite Knowing They Shouldn’t.
By Doctor Becky • December 8, 2024Like a moth to a flame, people who pay good money to learn about personal growth and get solid, well-grounded advice about their relationships will -
When Someone Shows You Who They Are, Believe Them.
By Doctor Becky • November 19, 2024When They Show a Therapist Who They Are, It’s Over.Oprah tells the story of how she complained about someone to her chosen… -
A Marriage Can Die By 1000 Cuts: You Can Stop the Bleeding.
By Doctor Becky • November 18, 2024Taylor Swift’s Song About Dying Relationships is Right On.It doesn’t always take something monumental to jeopardize a marriage; many a long-term relationship… -
How Excuses and Justifications are Marriage Killers
By Doctor Becky • November 2, 2024Just Say You Screwed the Marriage Up, Then Work to Change.Marriage therapists hear frequent excuses and justifications for foolish behaviors in relationships,…
