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If You’re Thinking of Leaving Your Spouse, Read This ….
By Doctor Becky • July 11, 2023Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. You’ve been unhappy in your relationship for a long time. You can taste the idea of freedom, focusing on… -

Donald Trump, King of the Dry Drunks.
By Doctor Becky • December 27, 2025And it Ain’t about the alcohol or lack thereof. by Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. LMFT, LPC In a world hungry for inside information… -

How to Complain to Your Partner Without Damaging Your Relationship.
By Doctor Becky • December 6, 2025People love to bitch, gripe, and complain, and most never learn how to do it in a way that can actually be heard. When I say heard, I mean -

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Is the Landmark Forum a Cult or one of the Greatest Personal Growth Seminars on the Planet?
By Doctor Becky • November 30, 2025It is with some trepidation that I reveal the third most significant influence in helping me grow and evolve: The Landmark Forum, a three-day intensive seminar dedicated -
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If You’re Afraid of Marriage Therapy, Read This First.
By Doctor Becky • November 30, 2025We Work For Your Marriage, Not Against Individuals. Some people refuse to go to marriage therapy, and they have their reasons, most… -
The Two Kinds of Change: One is Temporary, the Other Permanent.
By Doctor Becky • November 14, 2025Why Some Transformations Last — and Others Don’t Can people really change? That is the question so many of my clients have… -
It’s Time to Put Family Lawyers Out of Business.
By Doctor Becky • November 10, 2025You Don’t Need Them to Get a Divorce; There are Other Ways. For decades, I’ve watched family lawyers do the opposite of… -
Why Being Truthful and Honest is Seen as Brutal.
By Doctor Becky • August 21, 2025Clients Call Me Brutal, I Say My Style is Honest. Clients often comment in therapy sessions that I am brutally honest. Or… -
Avoid Marriage Hell by Choosing the Best Mate for Yourself.
By Doctor Becky • August 21, 2025Take My Relationship Advice, Or Pay the Awful Price. If you’ve ever been in marriage hell, you won’t want to take any… -
I Used to Be Man Crazy and Now I Am Not.
By Doctor Becky • August 21, 2025How Women Sell Themselves Out By Being Man Chasers. Women used to need a man in order to survive. The ones who… -
When Dad Tried to Save a Marriage From Divorce and the Couple Died.
By Doctor Becky • August 21, 2025How Qualified Marriage Help Can Be a Matter of Life and Death. If you are having marriage troubles, the gurus will vie… -
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How Being Unaware Guarantees Lifelong Suffering.
By Doctor Becky • July 13, 2025Wake up to the Effects of Trauma or Have Terrible Relationships. “We are spiritual beings having a human experience,” Pia Mellody Before… -
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Divorce Trauma is Certain. You Can Make it Less So.
By Doctor Becky • July 5, 2025There will be pain and suffering if you divorce, and it will have a ripple effect on your family, friends, and other areas of your









