How Not to Screw Up Yourself, Others, and Your Children.
How Expectations & Lack of Boundaries Screw up Relationships. “You cannot have expectations of others without their agreement.” — A Marriage and Family…
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Why the Wimpy Guy is a Frequent Cause for Divorce.
If a wife has to be dominant in the relationship with a man, there will be sexual chemistry issues. If a passive man hands the family football over to her, she must use masculine energy to take charge, decide and plan things, and push for responsibility or fun. Staying in our masculine energy too much is draining to a woman. Our natural setpoint is feminine energy. She may like him and enjoy his company. Still, she has no desire to bang his bangles because she is forced to be in her male energy to get life done, and since her husband is a male, and there are n
Four Types of Cheaters, All Lie, Here’s What to Do.
No Matter How Bad Your Spouse Is, There’s No Excuse. If I could take one painful marital scenario away from the planet,…
People Will Self-Sabotage Despite Knowing They Shouldn’t.
Like a moth to a flame, people who pay good money to learn about personal growth and get solid, well-grounded advice about their relationships will often ignore what they’re told and head straight into the fire of self sabotage, come what may. I get to watch this dynamic week and week out as I consult with people whose marriages are either hanging by a thread or in the beginning stages of an amicable divorce, which often will end up not being amicable once their parting spouse finds out what they’re up to. This is why it is sometimes painful to be me.
When Someone Shows You Who They Are, Believe Them.
When They Show a Therapist Who They Are, It’s Over. Oprah tells the story of how she complained about someone to her…
A Marriage Can Die By 1000 Cuts: You Can Stop the Bleeding.
Taylor Swift’s Song About Dying Relationships is Right On. It doesn’t always take something monumental to jeopardize a marriage; many a long-term…
How Excuses and Justifications are Marriage Killers
Just Say You Screwed the Marriage Up, Then Work to Change. Marriage therapists hear frequent excuses and justifications for foolish behaviors in…
A Marriage Dies in Stages. Early Intervention Can Save It.
Learn the stages of a dying marriage before it’s too late. by Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. Marriages die in predictable stages and have…
New Support Options for Your Marriage Crisis
Two-month plan and support options for troubled marriages. by Becky Whetstone, Ph.D. For years, I have noticed a need for professional help and support…
Recovery After Infidelity is Possible If You Do This.
Cheating happens; how you handle it may save your marriage. Readers in shaky unions gobble up information on cheating like a hungry…