Caught: Don’t Lie to Me About Cheating and Affairs.
Lying about an affair is normal, but in my office, I don’t want to hear false descriptions or details. I already know…
When One Spouse Wants Out, You May Need Managed Separation.
Even though a man is standing in this photo, 75 percent of the time, it is the female who initiates a marriage…
Understanding the Six Adjustment Pathways After Divorce.
The least functional path after divorce is “The Defeated.” I hope that most people won’t allow themselves to go there. A lot…
Setting Boundaries is the Ultimate Healthy Self Care.
I used to fear setting boundaries, but now I love it. Once I clearly understood when someone was out of line, I…
Waiting to Divorce Until Your Kids Are Grown is Misguided.
Yes, sometimes divorce is for the best. But if you have doubts, give your spouse a chance to make it right. For…
When Your Spouse Wants to Leave and Refuses Therapy.
Chasing after and pursuing a partner on the brink of leaving you worsens things. Learn about what does help during this dicey…
Ending a Marriage is Hell: Is Common-Law Divorce the Answer?
Old friends are getting together again after 30 years; what a tale my friend told about her 35-year unhappy marriage and…
You May Be To Blame If Your Relationships Are Toxic.
A relationship problem child says they’re never to blame. If your life and relationships aren’t working, looking in the mirror is probably…
The Art and Science of Love and Mate Selection.
People are making a mess of their lives by choosing the wrong mate for them. Finding a great life partner is…
Ways Passive Aggressive People and Pleasers Drive Us Nuts.
Mom and me, she was a world-class pleaser, and I am a recovered pleaser. I loved her dearly, but her pleaser…