Four Types of Cheaters, All Lie, Here’s What to Do.
No Matter How Bad Your Spouse Is, There’s No Excuse. If I could take one painful marital scenario away from the planet,…
How Accepting Your Spouse’s Divorce Decision Can Save Your Marriage.
Those who are strong in crisis win in the end. Are you healthy enough to be strong and resilient when life gives you a hard time or when terrible things happen and you get knocked on your ass? Can you return to calmness after the initial shock, console yourself in despair during personal attacks or emotional injury, and control what you say and do?
Caught: Don’t Lie to Me About Cheating and Affairs.
Lying about an affair is normal, but in my office, I don’t want to hear false descriptions or details. I already know…
When One Spouse Wants Out, You May Need Managed Separation.
Even though a man is standing in this photo, 75 percent of the time, it is the female who initiates a marriage…
Understanding the Six Adjustment Pathways After Divorce.
The least functional path after divorce is “The Defeated.” I hope that most people won’t allow themselves to go there. A lot…
Setting Boundaries is the Ultimate Healthy Self Care.
I used to fear setting boundaries, but now I love it. Once I clearly understood when someone was out of line, I…
Waiting to Divorce Until Your Kids Are Grown is Misguided.
Yes, sometimes divorce is for the best. But if you have doubts, give your spouse a chance to make it right. For…
When Your Spouse Wants to Leave and Refuses Therapy.
Chasing after and pursuing a partner on the brink of leaving you worsens things. Learn about what does help during this dicey…
Ending a Marriage is Hell: Is Common-Law Divorce the Answer?
Old friends are getting together again after 30 years; what a tale my friend told about her 35-year unhappy marriage and…
You May Be To Blame If Your Relationships Are Toxic.
A relationship problem child says they’re never to blame. If your life and relationships aren’t working, looking in the mirror is probably…