https://www.nytimes.com/2022/01/08/business/management-jerks.html? Why I Thank the Worst Boss I Ever Had She inspired me to arrange a life of self employment In 1997 I married a politician while I was a feature writer and twice-a-week columnist for the San Antonio Express-News. Writing the column was a dream, and I tolerated workplace bullying and sexual harassment to Read More
If Your Spouse Wants Out, Do This ….
If your spouse wants to leave you there are things you can do that are intelligent and helpful. The important thing is not to make any mistakes.
Hey Adults — Slip This Under your Intrusive Parent’s Door and See What Happens Next.
Boundary-less parents is a universal problem, and it has adult children steaming. Hey Adults — Slip This Under your Intrusive Parent’s Door and See What Happens Next. Yes, parents, there are rules you should follow if you want your adult kids to visit. One of the most talked about subjects in my therapy room involves complaints about older adults Read More
Harry and Meghan: How did it Come to This?
When will the British royal family learn life’s lessons? The answer appears to be never. Harry and Meghan: How did it Come to This? A family therapist takes a look at the royal family’s problems. Like many, I’m fatigued from the continuing saga of the British royal family, the feuds, gossip, estrangements, and bucketloads of first world Read More
Why I Thank the Worst Boss I Ever Had
Working for a terrible boss was like having handcuffs, and she taught me that I needed to be free from anyone’s control to thrive in my writing career.
If You Want to Keep your Relationship, Stop Doing These Three Things Now.
Adults have self-discipline and control themselves. If you want to have great relationships, you have to grow up. Doctor Becky shows you how.
What my Four Marriages Have Taught Me — by a Marriage Therapist.
Lessons a marriage therapist has learned from her three divorces and once successful marriage.
What A Family Therapist Says the Royal Family Must do to Manage the Harry and Meghan Crisis.
If you are born a royal, you are raised, or brainwashed, to endure your role, and to see being royal as a duty and privilege bestowed on your family. But imagine the shock of the experience for those who were not raised that way, who are accustomed to being independent, and then enter a world where you are told to step in line and follow ancient, dysfunctional rules and customs and embrace a lifestyle that says some humans are more highly ranked than others, then suffer the scrutiny of all that being a difficult transition.
The Number One Reason Your Spouse Doesn’t Want to Have Sex With You.
These are common marital intimacy and sexual apathy issues. If the subject is ever brought up, it will usually be one person blaming it on themselves and not the other, mainly because the subject of sex in marriage is so sensitive that most individuals tread very carefully so as not to hurt the other — “We aren’t having sex like we did, it must be me.” Is it true some things are better left unsaid? Sometimes, but if it weighs on your ability to enjoy the marriage, and resentment is seeping in, you must bring up your concerns in a loving, compassionate, respectful and diplomatic way.
Emergency Advice for Cheaters Who Just Got Caught
The first thing to understand is that when a human is in a life crisis, they are activated in the same way as any mammal who is sensing a threat to its life. Sure, you and your spouse aren’t being faced down by rabid dogs, but your brain thinks you are. It ascertains that the threat is serious, and sends you both into fight, flight or freeze. Most injured spouses go into fight mode, and it lasts much longer than average, so get ready. The cheaters can do all three, or only one or two, it just depends. What you need to know about this is that when couples are activated, they can’t make intelligent decisions, so no major decisions should be made at this time. What you need is to manage the crisis and not do more damage, and that’s where I come in.