How Not to Screw Up Yourself, Others, and Your Children.
How Expectations & Lack of Boundaries Screw up Relationships. “You cannot have expectations of others without their agreement.” — A Marriage and Family…
How Expectations & Lack of Boundaries Screw up Relationships. “You cannot have expectations of others without their agreement.” — A Marriage and Family…
herapists and counselors have a variety of styles and training, and how we are trained influences us and how we do our jobs. A psychologist, social worker, mental health counselor, pastoral counselor, Christian counselor, and marriage and family therapist all work from different philosophies and schools of thought. They can be as different as night and day. Many people assume I am a psychologist, for example, but I am as far from that as one can get and would not want to be one. I am a marriage and family therapist (MFT). The MFT thinks systemically about the whole family and each member’s influence on everyone else. We are specialists and the only mental health professionals trained to treat children, individuals, couples, and families; a psychologist usually tests people and writes psych evaluations, and if they do clinical psychologist work, they see one person at a time. The psychology training is generally steeped in older, more conservative theories like psychoanalysis, behavioral therapy, and Aaron Beck’s cognitive behavioral therapy.
In today’s world, sadly, cheating is common. More couples face marriage crisis, divorce therapy and marriage counseling now compared to 50 years…
Note: This article was inspired byBrittany Wong, editor of the Huffington Post Divorce Section, who asked me to provide her some comments…
Note: I love it when Brittany Wong, an editor with the Huffington Post Divorce section emails and asks me to write something…
One of the biggest mistakes couple’s make in therapy is to come to the first session, leave feeling validated and hopeful, only…
The best therapists are insatiable seekers of learning and growth, meaning that whatever our interests are, we learn all we can, continue…
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