Readers in shaky unions gobble up information on cheating like a hungry hog to his morning chow, starving for every morsel of information, looking wherever they can, seeking advice and understanding that might clarify whether they’re going crazy or being played the fool … is my spouse having an emotional affair? A physical affair? Are they in love? I suppose this is because people whose marriages aren’t on solid ground and take note that their spouse has started acting differently or a little weird wonder … Could they be cheating? In the Google mania attack that follows, they type in, “How do I know if my spouse is cheating,” and that’s how they find their way to me.