Why Coaching
Dive-in to Marriage Crisis management to Make Wise and intelligent Decisions for Your Family:
Reduce mistakes
Managing your marriage crisis yourself is a fool’s game. There is so much to know, and you will need professional, experienced, and knowledgeable guidance. The stakes are high.
Slow Things Down.
You may feel a sense of urgency to make a decision or move things forward, but the best strategy is to slow things down and stabilize your situation. Don’t to this alone.
Make healthy decisions.
We will coach you on how to make the wisest decisions for you and your family. We will guide you to access your best selves during one of life’s most difficult times. We remove the fear and nastiness, and give couples the confidence that their crisis is being overseen by people who care about the best outcome for their family.
Schedule a 90-minute Marriage Crisis Consultation Here
We now orchestrate amicable divorces and Oversee Positive Co-parenting Plans
Over the years, Becky has met thousands of individuals and couples in marriage crisis, some of whom reconcile, some who divorce, and some who work out a creative arrangement that enables them to keep their family together. Here is what she’s noticed:
“When couples choose the create separation path, which is a way of restructuring the family space in a way that the couple can remain married, but perhaps not in the same location, or if they choose amicable divorce, and desire a positive co-parenting experience for their children, they don’t know where or how to begin. The truth is, there is no one more qualified to take them by the hand to create positive family outcomes in than with a trained and experienced marriage and family therapist who cares about family, and wants to end the trauma and awful things that can happen to adults and children of divorce.
We offer plans for couples in crisis, those seeking a radically positive, amicable divorce, and assistance with co-parenting, as well as oversight and education for co-parenting. Please review the programs and options below and on our dedicated page, titled Offerings.
Consultation prices
Simple prices, flexible options, & nothing hidden
The most qualified, experienced, family help available.
We recommend two- to three-month renewable packages, plus a six-month co-parenting education and oversight package to hold couples accountable for following the process. Additionally, our packages provide more than just one or two-hour consultations… we will be chatting on the Voxer app daily if you desire. You will not find more experienced or qualified help for your marriage anywhere.
Are we a fit? session
$180
If you’d like to talk to Becky before scheduling or purchasing a package, this is the option for you.
30 minutes with Dr. Whetstone to get a feel for her and ask questions about her process and other details.
Individual
$315
per one hour session
Couples
$315
per one hour session
Six-month Positive Co-parenting Plan and Oversight
$5000
Two-month Couples marriage Crisis Oversight with Becky – an Accelerated Intensive.
Regular price: $7500
Temporary Offering: Only 3 Available for
$5000
We hope you choose this package if your marriage is on the brink, because it offers you the highest quality assistance during one of life’s most difficult times. We don’t want you to make mistakes when the stakes are high.
Three-month Radically Positive Amicable Divorce & Co-parenting Coaching
$5000
For a 3-month oversight package
Don’t hire a lawyer … yet. Hire us instead.
We care about you and your family. If you decide to divorce, and both of you are pretty reasonable, you can have an amicable divorce and a positive co-parenting experience that costs you far less than what you would pay family lawyers. We will guide you through the process from start to finish and beyond to ensure a radically positive and amicable divorce and co-parenting experience.
The first step is to hire us, not lawyers. Click here to read an article about the details. Here are the basic steps of the amicable divorce and positive co-parenting plan guided by Becky:
- Therapist-guided process. Everything is worked out that can be worked out in the therapy room. The family therapist understands how to orchestrate significant changes in a family with minimal stress. Becky’s coaching will hold you accountable to doing right by your family, and she does it with compassion.
- Structured separation, division of property, custody, and a co-parenting plan. We negotiate these things with the family therapist using a fill-in PDF guide that also explains key considerations for achieving the best outcomes.
- Collaborative Legal Backup. Unresolved items are referred to collaborative lawyers – attorneys who agree to negotiate and mediate, rather than litigate. These amicable-oriented attorneys will ensure you receive a fair deal legally and take into account any relevant legal rights or laws that must be followed. Becky will help couples find collaborative lawyers in their area.
- Ongoing Oversight. Once the divorce is final, we recommend continuing co-parenting management and oversight with a family therapist to ensure we do right by your family. We have other plans for co-parenting oversight available.
Included in the package:
Marriage Basic Skills Class
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Don’t go through a marriage crisis alone, don’t call family lawyers when you want a divorce, and don’t begin your co-parent experience without professional guidance, a rhyme, and a reason. Without experienced guidance, you are likely to make mistakes you may regret. Schedule an appointment for more information and insight about your individual situation.