The Art and Science of Love and Mate Selection.
People are making a mess of their lives by choosing the wrong mate for them. Finding a great life partner is…
Ways Passive Aggressive People and Pleasers Drive Us Nuts.
Mom and me, she was a world-class pleaser, and I am a recovered pleaser. I loved her dearly, but her pleaser…
What a One-sided Relationship is and How to Fix It.
A one-sided relationship feels like you’re loving on a mannequin. It’s hard to wake them up and get them to be proactive…
Why Your Relationship Will Never Be 50/50.
Equality diehards don’t do well in marriage and relationships. Stop expecting problems in the marriage to be seen as 50–50, and focus…
A Family Therapist’s Advice for the British Royals Drama.
The universe is screaming that it’s time for the British royal family to show a more authentic, compassion-filled side to the world…
Hey Guys, It’s Not About Leaving the Toilet Seat Up.
Almost every person who is a toilet user and has had a man around their home knows that the position he leaves…
The Downside of Being Emotionally Healthy.
Some people can’t deal with your growth and changes. Singer Ricky Nelson was booed when he didn’t sing his oldies at a…
Why People Who Say They Need Baby Steps Won’t Change.
Therapists are human; if they’re like me, they root for their clients. It’s sometimes painful to watch when they refuse to…
Understanding Marital Crimes and What to Do About Them.
Some marital crimes are worse than others. Some deserve no punishment; others deserve the death penalty. Graphic: Canva/Becky Whetstone Every married…
How to Get to Know the Different Voices in Your Head.
Getting to know the different parts of your personality is fascinating and can help you become healthier and happier. Graphic: Adobe Stock/agsandrew…