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Not Sure Whether to Stay or Go?

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Doctor Becky will help you find the best and wisest solution for yourself, your family, and help you avoid mistakes.


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You have reached a breaking point in what you are mentally and emotionally able to tolerate in your relationship.

Decider Partners: What you need to know now 

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You are stuck in ambivalence and not sure what is the best option, stay or go?

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You are stuck in ambivalence and not sure what is the best option, stay or go?

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Are you terrified of making a mistake?

THE GOOD NEWS IS

Help is Here

Doctor Becky’s ‘Clarity in Crisis’ philosophy for marriage crisis Deciders offers support and Education to help you navigate this uncertain period with confidence.

Dr. Becky has been a Decider in a marriage crisis and has coached thousands of Deciders over the years. She is dedicated to providing support, world-class coaching and education, and help for Deciders in making the best decisions for their families. We don’t want you to have regrets, and we’ll show you how to avoid mistakes.

Marriage Crisis is a process, and it is one of the most challenging dynamics an individual and a couple will ever go through. The stakes are high. You need the best support for your family.

Two-month Marriage Crisis Coaching and consulting program.

We offer a two-month program for Deciders and/or Leaning-in partners in a marriage crisis. We’ll help you gain clarity, calm your nervous system, and create space for the best possible outcome.

Anyone in a marriage crisis is stressed to the max and would benefit from solid support and education. Dr. Becky is arguably the most qualified and experienced expert in the field. Take advantage of a two-month program that can include your spouse or not, and receive weekly coaching, email, Voxer, and Text access, plus exclusive information available nowhere else.

Join Becky to discuss your situation and explore your options. Becky will support you, offer education, and provide tips for handling your specific situation.

This book has everything a person in a marriage crisis needs to know. There is no better resource for someone in a marriage crisis or considering leaving their marriage. If you like the book, please leave a review – it makes an enormous difference!

Note: The book link takes you to Amazon. We are an Amazon affiliate and may receive a small percentage of your purchase at no extra cost to you. You can purchase Becky’s book at any major bookstore; it is also available in digital and audiobook formats. Yes, Becky narrates the book herself.

If you would like to meet with Becky to see if you are a fit for the 2-month program, click here.

To join now, click here.

Other Important Information for Deciders who plan to divorce … Compassionate Uncoupling Assistance.

Our goal is to save all marriages that can and should be saved; however, we recognize that some marriages will inevitably end, and we offer compassionate support in these situations. Becky writes about how to have an amicable parting and maintain positive co-parenting in her book, offering personal and practical guidance for couples who want to achieve this.

DO NOT HIRE LAWYERS. START WITH A FAMILY THERAPIST.

Ask yourself: Would you rather go through an adversarial family law process with an attorney who cares nothing about your family, or a family therapist who cares about everything for the outcome of your family?

The basic plan for Compassionate Uncoupling is:

  1. Engage a professional family therapist (Becky) to oversee the process from discussions about who will move out, custody, finances, childraising, co-parenting, and more. We call this Amicable Divorce Management. A family therapist like Becky can ensure that you stay on track, keep lawyers out of the process as long as possible, and when you do hire lawyers, you will avoid adversarial ones and engage collaborative lawyers dedicated to negotiation, not litigation.
  2. Negotiate what you can with the therapist, and Becky will help you locate solid collaborative lawyers in your area for what you can’t agree on, or for complicated issues like investments and co-owned businesses.
  3. The therapist will slow down the process, giving each family member time to adjust to the many changes taking place as a deterrent to stress-related mental and emotional issues.
  4. A couple will negotiate a co-parenting plan and work to attain continuity between households.
  5. Post-divorce check-ins will hold each individual accountable to a positive co-parenting relationship.

We offer a 3-month amicable divorce oversight package that includes:

  1. Meeting with Becky every week for one hour to be guided through the steps and negotiate an amicable divorce. ($4000+ value)
  2. Two copies of her Radically Positive Amicable Divorce Planner and Coparenting Plan. ($150 value)
  3. Ongoing text, Voxer, and email support and assistance with Becky. (?$ value)
  4. Access to private video, helpful written content, and resources.
  5. Creation of a tailor-made co-parent plan that is negotiated and best suits your family, designed for the best outcome for your kids.

Cost: $7000. 3 slots available at $5000.

Payment plan available

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REMEMBER

You are NOT alone, and don’t do this alone.

  •  Join our two-month research-based information and decision-making coaching by Dr. Becky.
  • Access to the best information for marriage crisis on the Internet.
  • Signed copy Becky, author of the book, I (Think) I Want Out: What to Do When One of You Wants to End Your Marriage.
  • Weekly coaching sessions.
  • Aaccess to training videos for support.
  • Custom relaxation and clarity hypnosis sessions.
  • Ongoing Email, text, and Voxer support.
Join our Two-month program for individuals and/or Couples in marriage crisis.

It’s time to handle your part of the marriage crisis in the most intelligent, thoughtful way, that just might save your marriage.