• Stop assholes now

    Women: It’s Your Fault Men Are Jerks and Assholes.

    By Doctor Becky • August 26, 2024
    We could stop people from acting like jerks and treating us with disrespect if we valued ourselves enough to set appropriate boundaries. The way it
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  • How to End the Insanity of the Nasty Divorce.

    By Doctor Becky • August 26, 2024
    I am an advocate for the end of the nasty divorce. Especially when there are children involved. To me, it is one of the most
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  • Don’t Say This When Your Spouse is Thinking About Divorce.

    By Doctor Becky • July 14, 2024
    There are things one should never tell their miserably unhappy spouse. For example, if you want to infuriate a person, one of the best ways
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  • How Adult Children Can Set Boundaries With Their Parents

    By Doctor Becky • June 30, 2024
    Adult Children Set The Rules for How They Live.Adult children often ask me to coach them on how to deal with parents who…
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  • Why women are so damn angry with men.

    By Doctor Becky • June 23, 2024
    Women are angry because of the way men have treated us for many hundreds of years, up until today. If you dismiss or don’t understand
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  • Your Kids Will Figure Out Who is Unreasonable After Divorce.

    By Doctor Becky • June 16, 2024
    Kids Catch On to Parental Alienation, at One Parent’s Peril. On my quest to end what is known as the nasty divorce, I…
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  • Recovery After Infidelity is Possible If You Do This.

    By Doctor Becky • June 16, 2024
    Cheating happens; how you handle it may save your marriage. Readers in shaky unions gobble up information on cheating like a hungry…
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  • 21 Stupid Things Couples Do To Mess Up Their Marriages.

    By Karen Lewis • June 15, 2024
    Relationship Roulette and Ways Couples Ruin Their Relationships.Why do people get married? It seems like a strange question, but when I ask…
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  • Caught: Don’t Lie to Me About Cheating and Affairs.

    By Karen Lewis • May 20, 2024
    Lying about an affair is normal, but in my office, I don’t want to hear false descriptions or details. I already know…
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  • When One Spouse Wants Out, You May Need Managed Separation.

    By Karen Lewis • May 20, 2024
    Even though a man is standing in this photo, 75 percent of the time, it is the female who initiates a marriage…
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  • Understanding the Six Adjustment Pathways After Divorce.

    By Karen Lewis • May 10, 2024
    The least functional path after divorce is “The Defeated.” I hope that most people won’t allow themselves to go there. A lot…
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  • Setting Boundaries is the Ultimate Healthy Self Care.

    By Karen Lewis • May 3, 2024
    I used to fear setting boundaries, but now I love it. Once I clearly understood when someone was out of line, I…
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